THIS was my lifestyle “before” as I grew up in one of the worst neighborhoods of Brooklyn, New York.
BUT, I started CHASING WOMEN to the point where it soon became apparent that I had NO LIFE as I dropped out of acting school and became a PUA.
At the time, I didn’t care since I felt on top of the world. It was only until many months later LIFE hit me smack in the face. All that time CHASING WOMEN and I had no actual life. Either I was out TRYING to get women or I was at home waiting for the next opportunity to go out.
A year later, through social media, I noticed a model I had approached on the street was in the south of France.
Even more mind-boggling was finding out that she flew into St Tropez to meet a group of people FROM NEW YORK. All I could think when flipping through the photo album.
To put things in perspective, I met that model chick on the street. HOWEVER, it was strategic planning on my part because I knew there was a club which for some reason every model was going to. I couldn’t get in, so I waited on the corner to HIT ON CHICKS. I met 5 models that week. However, I’d later learn those same guys in St Tropez were the same guys who the models were going to the club to meet.
All this time, running around soho with NOTHING TO SHOW for my efforts and here it is 3-4 guys are going to a club on Saturday nights with 30-50 models. That is when I made a promise to myself that I would STOP CHASING WOMEN and actually develop MY IDEAL LIFESTYLE.
I started researching about all sorts of people who were living a vibrant lifestyle. I started to read up on everything revolving around both the “high end” nightlife and hipster scene. My break came on a night out with a friend, there was a “special event” and a mixed group of 30-40 people showed up. Huge bottles of champagne, young men holding sparklers cheering ontop of the sofa while surrounded by a handful of models. I needed a closer look, 30mins later I meet the DJ, photographer, lots of women, and the men who were giving free drinks. It was amazing and I wanted more.
This is always funny to mention since I remember on day one thinking “Why am I out? It’s a weekday, no one goes out”. TWO YEARS LATER, I can say with 100% conviction that I can build whatever lifestyle I want both socially and sexually. In those two years, I learnt a lot especially when it comes to BEING A FASCINATING MAN. Let… Read more…