Could you be putting your special date with your special someone without knowing it? From being tactless or careless, there is no doubt that your date will be ruined. This article will open your mind about unpleasant behavior that you need to stop or prevent whenever you have a date so that you will not gain negative points to your date.
Here are the following tips you should try to implement before it’s too late:
Firstly, in the time of your date whether it is a lunch or dinner date, avoid unnecessary topic or questions that might offend your date. Don’t ask him/her about her ex because it’s not the right time to interrogate his/her past. You must also avoid telling him/her about your stress or depression. As much as possible bring up or initiate good topics that both of you can be comfortable so that the two you will enjoy your initial date. Keep in mind that your first date with him/her should be very special. You can only do that if your actions or manners are appropriate.
Secondly, in case that you will go in a bar, be mindful on your alcohol consumption especially if you are a girl/woman. It is not good to be drunk on your first date. To prevent this from happening, follow the recommended guidelines for alcohol consumption. You can also alternate alcohol with other liquid refreshment such as fresh juice or cola drinks.
Thirdly, do not wear unnecessary accessories or clothes. You must dress accordingly that will match in the venue of your special day/night. It’s not bad to look good with your glam clothes and high heels, but you must learn when and where to wear those things in order to avoid awkwardness.
Those reminders are very necessary if you really want to have a memorable and enjoyable date. Learning to manage your manner and adopting more pleasant behavior in public especially with your special someone is very imperative. Since your manner or conduct really counts, it’s very essential that you do your best to change your personality for the better so you can make him/her to like you.